A Week in vivid Sydney – Part 5

On a bright, sunny Thursday morning, we set out to the nearest sports ground. It was not The Lords, Eden Gardens, or even Melbourne, but it was the closest we had ever lived to a cricket ground, and we didn’t want to miss a chance.

A Thursday morning plan

The Sydney Cricket Ground is Don Bradman’s home ground. He had famously declared as a child that he would never be satisfied until he played at the SCG. And play he did.

The Australian pride in The Don was evident in the tour guide’s tone and the frequent mention of what Bradman meant to the SCG.

I was immediately in awe of the young woman (She would be over sixty) who took us around the stadium. She reeled away records and facts about the performances on the ground by domestic and international cricketers.

However, first things first. The tour started on an unpleasant note for my husband and daughter because of a snide remark. My daughter, excited to see a life-sized Kohli cut out inside the tiny enclave, which they called the museum, slunk away to take a picture.

As a courtesy, when the guide asked whether we were excited, I mentioned that my daughter had already spotted her favourite.

The guide replied cheekily, “King Kohli? Well, we’ll see him at the end of the year.” (Referring to India’s tour of Australia later this year). “He has to prove himself overseas, doesn’t he?”

My husband bristled. “Again?” he asked in a low voice, which I am not sure if she heard or pretended not to hear.

My daughter turned around with a smirk, “Nonsense!” she mouthed soundlessly.

So, that was not an encouraging start to the tour. It did not help that we had an Indian gentleman in our group who insisted on drawing comparisons between everything—the ground, cricketers, matches, and so on.

Cricket arouses passion and nationalistic fervour like no other game in India. Out of the eight tour group members, five of us were Indian fans. The guide was as ready with anecdotes and jokes as the audience was with the records that mattered.

The Writing is on the Wall

While the guide highlighted Indian accomplishments with equal sincerity as the domestic ones, we still couldn’t contain our excitement when we saw some of the names hung up on boards, written on the wall, or scribbled. Yes, apparently, it is a new tradition to scribble one’s accomplishments on any surface one could find.

Proud scribbles on the wall

Why do accomplishments matter more when they are on foreign soil? Why does our chest swell with pride when we see the names of our heroes offered a respectable space on international walls? It may be the outcome of years of subjugation and colonisation. We use any opportunity to show that we are always strong, despite how the world sees or continues to see us.

I was glad my daughter learned how long it took to acknowledge women fans of the game. When the SCG opened, women spectators were considered guests of the male visitors, and the men had to stand up if a woman did not have a seat. When the number of women fans grew, they built the Ladies Pavilion, a separate seating arrangement for women. It was not until 1974 that women were given full membership access as men.

The tour included a peek into the dressing room for both the visiting and home teams. To reach the visitor’s dressing room, we walked up the steps used by the visiting team to enter the ground. If the guide hadn’t mentioned it, we would have missed this modest plaque proclaiming the gate as the Brian Lara – Sachin Tendulkar Gates. It was unveiled in April 2023 to commemorate Sachin’s fiftieth birthday and thirty years of Lara’s 277 at the venue.

As we filed into the rather narrow visitor’s dressing room, the guide shared an interesting story about a lone seat near the steps that led to the men’s washrooms. Apparently, it was the only seat available to an eighteen-year-old Tendulkar when he first played at the SCG after his seniors took their favourite spots. He went on to score an unbeaten 148 in the third test. Since then, apparently, he favoured that seat the most. Cricketers are known to have their quirks and superstitions. However, it was difficult to say whether the story was true or the guide was merely humouring a group of people whose eyes lit up at the mention of Tendulkar.

Tendulkar’s favoured (purportedly) spot in the visitors’ dressing room

Not surprisingly, the most vocal fan amongst us took the opportunity to take a photo of himself in the same seat, ignoring that the doorway beside it opened into a row of urinals.

Fandom was at its peak. I wonder what he would have done if the guide had known and shared more details about the players’ daily routine.

Original scorecard of a match

The group joked and laughed about the scores scribbled on the dressing room furniture, and there was a warm camaraderie despite the opposing camp vibes.

However, the air turned chill as we entered the home team’s dressing room. The interiors were more tasteful, and we couldn’t help but notice the snacks and food corner, which was missing in the visitor’s dressing room. I was a bit incensed and did not take any pictures of the room.

The guide quickly grasped our silent resentment and shrugged with a ‘home team advantage’ remark. It became clear why overseas accomplishments mattered more.

The saving grace of the moment was a framed message in the room. A few handwritten words from a twenty-year-old Bradman found in a child’s notebook takes the place of pride on the home team’s dressing room wall. The guide gushed about a young Don’s beautiful handwriting.

“If it’s difficult, I’ll do it now. If it’s impossible, I’ll do it presently.”

Certainly, Sir Bradman. You did it.

P.S. You can read the previous part here. The concluding part is here.

A Week in vivid Sydney – Part 2

Universities and their campuses have always inspired me, and the UNSW campus was no different. Tall, serious buildings and a green campus with a central avenue that climbs up as you walk into the heart of the campus reminded me of my alma mater in Mumbai.

UNSW central avenue

Funnily, we identified fellow visitors from the ubiquitous Singapore umbrella they carried. The 7-Eleven stores in Singapore sell a foldable navy-blue umbrella with red and white flowers. We saw our respective umbrellas and broke into broad smiles, “From Singapore?” It was a happy coincidence to meet them there.

We were on a campus tour conducted by two students, and their perky narrations cheered us all up despite the cold, rainy weather. I was too overwhelmed to ask the guides any intelligent questions, but fortunately, the kids in our group had their lists ready.

My favourite part of the tour was seeing Gandhiji’s bust on the library lawn. On reading up, I found out that it was unveiled in 2010 by the then Consul General of India and was a gift from India to the university. It is the only University in New South Wales to display a bust of Mahatma Gandhi. They commemorate Gandhiji’s birth and death anniversary every year.

Gandhiji’s bust at the UNSW Library lawn

After being suitably impressed by the university’s focus on research in various fields, we decided to explore the city ourselves. It helped that our cousin had flown down from Melbourne to give us company. He had hoped for warmer weather but was surprised by colder-than-usual Sydney, a testament to abnormal weather patterns this year.

The light rail or the Sydney tram system took us into the central business district, where we got down at the first stop, which struck our fancy. QVB, or Queen Victoria Building, proved to be the opposite of what we thought it might be. I was expecting a historical landmark because it was built in 1898. Even the mention of something built in the 1900s makes my daughter gape at the antiquity of the structure. It does not matter if it was the early 20th century or later and whether it was edifices or people. (‘You both were born in the same century as the two World Wars. Yikes!’)

QVB turned out to be just a modern marketplace with five levels, and it was always meant to be a marketplace, whereas I was hoping for a transformation story. Nevertheless, there were some quaint features, like the elegant name boards hung outside every shop and the dainty ‘Ladies Powder Room’ sign outside the restrooms.

Inside QVB

The shops belonged to the brands that you see in any major mall in this world, nothing extraordinary. The stained glass was beautiful as was the suspended clock tower in the centre.

Inside QVB

If time and hunger did not protest, I would have spent some time loafing in one of the corridors where, bang in the middle of the building, was a piano. Several pianists hung around patiently waiting their turn to let their fingers frolic on the keys. We listened until our tummies reminded us that we hadn’t eaten anything after the morning brunch at a local café near our apartment. Unlike my family, I had opted for a vegan bowl, which I did not finish. Of course, I packed it for home. It did not taste any better the next day.

A cursory glance at the restaurant menus in QVB did not motivate us. We were mightily hungry, cold, and we all dreamed of something spicy.

We decided to find an Indian restaurant at Surry Hills, where the streets are lined with restaurants giving off heady smells of masalas. I found a dish to my liking. It was called the Madras Chicken Curry, and although I have not had something like that in Madras, the tangy and spicy flavour was perfect for the cold and dark evening. Unfortunately, we ordered twice from the same restaurant during the week, but they failed to replicate that genius of a dish. Their inconsistency made me agree with their tagline, ‘home-style Indian cooking.’ It doesn’t matter what you ask for; what you get from the home kitchen is the dish of the day, whether you like it or not.

The next day, we headed to the Australian Museum precisely as scheduled. And what a weather it was. It was perfect for walking with no rain and the wind not so bitingly cold. We strolled through Hyde Park, happy to recognise the hibiscus flower among various unfamiliar plants and trees.

Australian White Ibis at Hyde Park

The Australian Museum is a treasure trove of archaeological, natural, and human history artifacts.

The First Nations people have a special wing in the museum where their rich traditions and heritage are displayed along with lessons from their Indigenous wisdom. Most of their beliefs resonate with the challenges we face today. A solution might not lie in their ancient lifestyle but in the principles that guided how they lived and interacted with the world around them.

Indigenous wisdom

It was heartening to note that the Indigenous people are being respected and appreciated for what they are, however late the appreciation might seem. Throughout Sydney, there are notes of gratitude for the original community to whom the land belonged and on which the modern edifices were built. Better late than never.

The natural world exhibits were special because they gave a sneak peek into Australia’s diverse and unique species, like the Dingo and the Tasmanian Devil. As with any museum, the few hours we spent were insufficient to assimilate and absorb everything they offered.

It is a terrific place for children to learn about the culture of the land, its people, and the local flora and fauna. The prehistoric wing looms large with its neatly labelled exhibits and the giant dinosaur skeletons grazing the roof. We found hordes of kids enjoying the display and unwilling to leave the place.

On our walk back from the museum, we peeped into St. Mary’s Cathedral and were pulled inside by the silence and calm. It was so peaceful that we might have spent the entire evening there had it not been for the darkness falling swiftly outside.

St. Mary’s Cathedral

Before I end the post, I must mention that the lunch at the casual dining restaurant, Bistro Gadi, at the top of the museum and overlooking Hyde Park, was one of the best I had in Sydney. Though limited in scope, it was healthy and flavourful. Looking at their fare, I felt the restaurants back home should update their menus to put meat and vegetables under the Mains and rice, noodles, or any starchy items under the Sides. It makes a big difference to the nutritional balance of the plate.

We ended the day with splendid cups of coffee and hot chocolate at The Rocks Market, a place, which according to my teen, gives ‘proper Sydney vibes.’ I would agree after having the coffee and gaping at street stalls selling kangaroo and crocodile meat snacks.

Stalls at The Rocks Market

On our way to The Rocks, we got a distant view of the Sydney Opera House, one of the must-visit places we had on our list.

P.S. You can read part 1 of this travel series here. And part 3 here.

A Week in vivid Sydney – Part 1

The first visit to any place leaves an indelible mark in your memory, especially when it’s with your family. It becomes fodder for nostalgia in the future and a point in time to check in your rear-view mirror and see how far you have travelled. First visits are also interesting in how we form opinions about a place. If we can revisit and get a different perspective, it’ll be interesting to note a change of opinion.

Last week, my family and I travelled to Sydney on vacation, and although I had made up my mind not to write anything during the holiday (I left my laptop back at home), every evening, I found myself itching to jot down a few words. I did type a few lines on my phone, but they were not enough. I process my experiences through words and feel compelled to write. So, this is about Sydney, as I saw it. Moreover, unless I get this out of my system, I won’t be able to get back to my first draft.

This post is my personal experience of Sydney, so feel free to skip reading if you do not like diary entries. But you may find a sample (if not the best) itinerary for your next Sydney visit. That’s my best promo line for this blog post.

Sydney entered our travel list when we began exploring cities with well-established universities and employment opportunities. As a family, we watched a fair amount of travel vlogs to determine which places we wanted to visit and which we didn’t.
However, the final plan was based on our collective and individual interests.

Pre-visit jitters

It didn’t take us long to realise that visiting Sydney is preceded by the big event of flying into Australia, a country with such strict laws about what you bring into their country, that we started second-guessing every item in our suitcase. Are winter jackets allowed or not?

Indeed, preparations involved packing winter-wear because Australia, being in the southern hemisphere, celebrates its winter while we in Singapore enjoy our summer vacations.

But this is a heads-up for anyone visiting Australia for the first time: please make it a point to visit the Australian government websites to check which items you can carry in your luggage without being fined. If you are carrying any food items, it is better to declare. Once declared, the biosecurity team will scan the food items and ask you to discard them or proceed as they deem fit. However, I suggest avoiding all declaration headaches and food items if you are traveling on a short vacation. Instead, install Uber Eats and order your favourite dishes and meals from the numerous restaurants in and around the city (if you have diet restrictions).

The Drabness of Air Travel

I was expecting a somber US-airport-style security check process (Trevor Noah once joked that U.S. airports look like concentration camps with passengers walking barefoot in a single line). But I was pleasantly surprised to find that the officials actually smiled at you. And not in the patronising or condescending way that border security teams bless you with their ‘You don’t have to worry, but remember you are a foreigner entering our country’ cheeriness.

The staff were genuinely happy to do their jobs and possibly to see us. Their smiles reached their eyes. You can’t fake those.

The immigration process went smoothly with a smiling officer who didn’t want to intimidate whatsoever. Model behaviour, I would say. Then came the surprise when we were asked to stand in the biosecurity check line. This was after we collected our luggage. So, remember, folks, putting restricted items into your check-in luggage would not help either.

And the next surprise generated a range of emotions in the three of us. My heart melted to see the wagging tail eagerly sniffing out the suitcases while the youngest in our family was not too keen to be anywhere near it. A biosecurity team member politely asked my daughter if she was comfortable with dogs. She wasn’t, and they asked her to stand by until the dog finished sniffing out any items from our luggage that we shouldn’t have packed.

The dog didn’t find anything unusual with us, but if he had lingered around me a little longer, he would have realised how my heart was yearning to hug him. And it was not just him. There were several other dogs on duty. All of them waited for a single command from their human officer. I was tempted to enquire if I could get a job as a dog handler, but I didn’t want to exploit the genuine niceness with which the officers went about their jobs. It would be a weird start to a vacation to learn that people are not as cool if we disturb them at their workplace. I gave one last pining look to the four-legged officers in their cages before we rolled our trolleys out of the security check area.

As we pushed towards the exit, we felt cold air blasting from somewhere—just like the air conditioner blast from inside a mall in Singapore when we walked past. We looked all around for a heavy air-conditioning unit. It took us a few minutes to realise that it was not the air conditioner but the air outside.

Folks, don’t get me wrong. It was not my first cold winter experience, but the day before, I visited a nearby temple in Singapore at eight in the morning and returned wishing I had never stepped out. My spiritual experience was marred by the humidity and the unpleasant feeling of being drenched in sweat.

So, having a blast of aircon-cold air blowing at me from outside the airport was a pleasant shock. It was a cool twelve degrees when we landed.

Once we got used to the cold winter air made cooler by the rain, we settled in our taxi to admire the views.

We had to first acknowledge that Indian travellers need not feel alone in Australia. The taxi driver was from Hyderabad, and before we could ask his name, he told us about the best biriyani outlet in Sydney. He also pointed out that he figured out we were South Indians. I expected subtlety there, but people have their ways of displaying their familiarity with diversity.

On the way, he also explained to us how driving in Australia was not easy because rules are expected to be strictly followed, and penalty points are awarded for breaking them. If a certain number of penalty points are crossed, the driver has to reapply for the license. And, of course, for all the special tips that he offered, he asked us for a tip. Now, that’s what one calls an entrepreneurial spark at daybreak. He created an appropriate build-up by complaining about how long he had to wait at the airport for a ride and how much longer it would take him to get another one after he dropped us off. Fair enough, I suppose.

After a shower at the Air BnB and a light breakfast of bread and jam, bought from the nearby convenience store that called itself a supermarket, we set out for our first day in Sydney, suitably covered in layers and sheltered under umbrellas.

P.S. We arrived on the last day of Vivid Sydney, an annual festival of light, music, and ideas. We were told that there would be outdoor installations and beautiful displays, but we were just not ready to plunge into a crowd on our first day, so we skipped it. However, I liked the moniker for Sydney, and hence, the title of my blog post.

You can read part 2 of this travel series here.